i just have this one thing to say...
if u have an overprotective gf, don't go out at all. why the hell would u wanna go out with other girls when u know your gf would be pissed?? and if u still wanna go out anyway, why the hell are u still with your girl???? shows how much u DON'T care bout her feelings...not saying that i agree with girls being overprotective but if somehow you're unlucky enough to get one and actually care enough to stay by her side then just DON'T go out with girls!!
how annoying is it to hear your friends say "don't msg me, my gf might see and get pissed" or "don't tell my gf i'm out with girls, she'll flip out"...what kind of a weird dictator-like relationship are u in?? geeezzz sheeps and cows...i'm soooo annoyed!
if u have an overprotective gf, don't go out at all. why the hell would u wanna go out with other girls when u know your gf would be pissed?? and if u still wanna go out anyway, why the hell are u still with your girl???? shows how much u DON'T care bout her feelings...not saying that i agree with girls being overprotective but if somehow you're unlucky enough to get one and actually care enough to stay by her side then just DON'T go out with girls!!
how annoying is it to hear your friends say "don't msg me, my gf might see and get pissed" or "don't tell my gf i'm out with girls, she'll flip out"...what kind of a weird dictator-like relationship are u in?? geeezzz sheeps and cows...i'm soooo annoyed!
hmm.. what if its the other way around? What if the guy is more protective than the girl? Does it mean that she is suppose to stay in?
Just a thinker..
What say you?
well, i guess these things work both ways. if u're in a relationship wit someone who's overprotective then u either gotta learn to deal wit it or leave. if the guy is more protective then i guess the girl's gotta stay in but i'm really really against overprotectiveness. i feel that being overprotective is unhealthy and definitely doesn't show love or care but instead selfishness...wut do u tink?
well..hmm true..true..
actually it all depends on how does the other party. On their level of overprotectiveness.
Some might have a low level of overprotectiveness and some with a high level of overprotectiveness..
With a different level of overprotectiveness, they would react to different situations.
The level of overprotectiveness usually depends on the upbringing of one.Whether are they given much freedom or not by the people closest to them which probally would be their parents. ; )
That is why both parties should come together to get it straight between themselves..
true?
haha what a debate.
-julia.
hehe hi julia =)
well ian, i'm sure there are alot of factors as to why someone becomes overprotective but i'm not talking bout just plain protective. a guy has the right to be protective of his girl, like if she enjoys clubbing, the guy should be worried and checking up on her once in awhile is fine.
there are diff levels of protectiveness, i agree, but what i'm talking bout is the extreme level that is OVERprotectivesness. meaning, for example, the girl goes out shopping with her girl frens and her bf calls about 20 times to see if she's trying on clothes, wut kinda clothes, wut color, wut brand, is she gonna eat, where, wut time...hehe...seriously...not a pretty sight. it works the other way around too...girls who follow their bfs everywhere from yam chas wit his boys to football matches, cyber cafes, and even college classes during her hols. occassiaonally is fine but every damn time is too much la...if u had a girl like that would u feel grateful or suffocated?
hmm...back to u, ian
yesyes... i agree..
hmm.. I think its an excellent topic ahaks...
anyone?
feel free to comment!