1. How does your boyfriend rank in kissing?
Erm...I don't have a boyfriend...But if I did, he would be damn good after all our practice *beam*

2. What have you learned about serious relationships?
That there will always be uncertainty. No matter how serious a relationship, when circumstance happens the relationship can go either way.

3. Do you think opposites attract?
I think they do because most people feel a need to make up for the things they lack but these sorts of attractions don't last very long. Eventually real life will make you realise that the very thing you were once so attracted to has become repulsive.

4. What's the relationship you have with your current date?
Erm...I'd come up with a witty response but at this time of year it's depressing, so I'm just gonna say that I don't have a date thus the relationship is non-existent.

5. Would you want a big family someday?
Not really. I prefer a small family but I will definitely have lots of dogs.

6. What would you most like to change about yourself, if anything?
I'd like to be able to focus better. I have a very short attention span and though some people may be able to channel that disadvantage into creative energy, I can not. All I get out of this disability is half stories. I need to learn to focus....

7. What's your ideal date?
One where I learn something while still having an enjoyable time. The time, the place, the ambience, it all doesn't really matter as long as we can talk.

8. What's your date like?
My date needs to be smart. He has to be able to stimulate me in the non-sexual sense before he can stimulate me in that other sense.

9. Do you agree that love stops you from thinking reasonably?
I dunno. I like to think that hormones is what stops me from thinking reasonably and that love is a whole lot more rational, a whole lot more in-control of things.

10. What's the craziest thing that you have ever done for love?
Letting him in. I know...Mundane as it sounds, at the moment, the craziest thing I have done and would do for love is to let the person into my life.

11. Torn between love and your career. What would you choose?
I've never been in that position before because I'm not exactly on the career path yet. Maybe ask me this question again in a year.

12. Do you think it's hard work being a girl?
No, not really. In this time and age, being a girl is no longer the main worry. It's more about being a human being. Ya, we still need to know how to look good and cook and love kids but now expectation is on the men as well. Modern day society has shifted and the gender bias card hardly comes up anymore, not that it doesn't but it's hardly an issue anymore. What is is how we function as humans. How we, as individuals, count success. Trying to be a useful human being is hard work.

13. Do you think love is a fantasy?
Love is a fantasy when you don't have it. It becomes a reality when you're in it...I dunno. I prefer reality to fantasy. It's so much more unexpected and sometimes disappointing but at least it's real. I want my love to be a reality...For it to feel real rather than having my fantasies realised. I think I'm not answering the question...Someone needs to help me define 'fantasy'.

14. Would you give up your dreams for your true love?
If I have already met my true love, I think he would be a part of my dreams. Wait, by 'dreams' do you mean 'ambitions'? If it's 'ambitions' then it would depend on where I am in life. If I'm just starting out in my career life then I think I shouldn't give up on my quest for life's "true meaning" for my life's "true love". Ok...I'm not making sense. Let me make things a bit clearer. I won't know exactly what I'll do if I'm ever faced with a situation like such but if I am, inevitably it would depend on where my priorities lie. If it's my man or my career, ultimately they both affect my future and thus my dreams.

15. Define friendship.
Friendship is the fond relationship between two people drawn together by circumstance and kept together by love.

16. What are you afraid of?
I think I've answered this question quite a few times this year already. I fear lizards, exploding things, and being the last person left on earth.

17. In your opinion, why would women want to be skinny?
I think the people who are still trying to be skinny didn't get the latest memo from Hollywood. Update people, "skinny" is so out. "Healthy" is the new "skinny".

18. What mistake do you think women make in relationships?
The mistake of expectation. We tend to make plans and when they aren't fulfilled our expectations are crushed along with our spirit, along with the relationship. And by "we" I mean "me".

19. Is there anything you just don't get about guys?
How clueless they can be sometimes.

20. Last question, what do you look for in a guy?
Wow...So many things but right now I must say, being smart is a definite plus point.
1 Response
  1. wow! i love your answers on question 18 and 19! so SO true! :)